039.) Words Fail Me.

I actually won.

38.) Why Is This Not Working?

So, I've joined this site Authonomy dot com with the intention of posting "Side Order of Fries" there and being seen and heard, right?

I create my profile, upload an older picture of myself and start setting up the book. All of this goes very well - right up until I'm asked to start posting chapters.

First I'm asked "How many chapters?" would I like to upload.

So I choose a number, any number, between one and fifty.

Then I go down the line (after saving each and every chapter of my mystery novel in a different format, in its own separate file), naming my chapters as I go, and then I hit "NEXT", assuming that I'll now be going to the "GO LIVE" section of the process and start peddling my work.

Of course this doesn't happen.

Apparently, neither my Word nor Rich Text Format documents are valid documents.

Apparently, these are still not valid after re-formating, re-saving and re-saving my chapters again. And then again. And then for the third time.

Even trying to upload my chapters one at a time is no good.



I dislike technology with great intensity.

037.) Baseball and Tears Go Hand-in-hand

Sodding Yankees.

At least we're holding onto the Wild Card - barely.

036.) Meditation at the Tattoo Parlor, Part Troix

(source)

Like any other session day it began on the bench reading a book ("Requiem for a Dream") without actually reading the book, for I was far too consumed with what was to transpire inside once the signs were flipped and the parlor opened.

It had rained earlier; the wooden slats of the bench's seat were damp. So, of course, as I sat there with an ever chilling ass, Dropkick Murphy came out of the shop. We exchanged greetings and for a while I reverted back to my book, wanting to finish a paragraph before I went inside. By doing so I must have been in Dropkick Murphy's way. He lit up on the sidewalk, obviously waiting for me to vacate the spot on the bench nearest the ash-bucket (and without a broken slat).

When finally I did move away from the bench, I cast a pathetic glance at the OPEN sign in the window, lamented the shyness which dominates my very existence and said:

"I know I sound anal-retentive for saying this, but your sign is crooked and it's bothering me."

It really wasn't, not badly enough to mention it, but I was desperate to say something. I would very much like to be a social butterfly.

I went inside to sit on the couch in the lounge.
Pete Kugel (also here) was guest spotting in the parlor (and if you haven't - buy some Wisconsin Skinny merch now. I mean now. This very instant - you can come back to my blog later). Or maybe he just booked the day to hang out. Either way, he was already tattooing the back of a very large man (but that's fine because he didn't appear to be a child rapist or axe murderer or anything; a nice man) with very exquisite tattoos.

Meanwhile, the artist slaving away over my insanely tedious work placed third at the Milwaukee Beer City Tattoo Convention in the Men's L competition for a backpiece he did. Congratulations to him!

When Dropkick Murphy finished his cigarette break, he pulled back the black blinds to straighten the very crooked OPEN sign.

It was bothering him as well, or so he said.

I wasn't about to tell him that the "CLOSED" marker for Monday's business hours seemed to be peeling away from the sign in an almost moth-like way.

Speaking of winged insects, as I sat on the couch reading my book a blonde woman came into the parlor. Not having raised my head to see who had walked through the door, I at first thought she was someone I knew (the voice was familiar); however, she was simply a random stranger who wanted Dropkick Murphy to cover up an existing tattoo that she hated with quite a bit of passion.

Dropkick Murphy proceeded to explain that in order to cover up the tattoo (which I thought I heard her say was a Celtic cross) he would need to make the new work larger and darker - and even then,

"You know it's there, so you'll still see it."

He then asked what she might like.

"A flower."

Not being one to read minds, Dropkick Murphy gently asked what kind of flower - because

"There are a lot of flowers out there."

To prove this statement, or to help the woman along, he turned to the computer and commenced an image search. He rattled off a few genera of flowers.

The woman then announced that she would be fond of a cross (or, rather, another one to cover the old one) or a butterfly.

Dropkick Murphy took a picture of the offending tattoo on the woman's arm. He then wrote down her name and phone number, explaining that he would need to draw out a design but would get in touch with her later.

"Like an hour?"

I would have liked to have seen the look on his face, but I was too busy trying to hide behind my book. It would have been rude of me to laugh.

The woman said that she would stop in in a few days, a week, and was politely refused.

"I'll call you."

One cannot rush an artist after all.

He then left for his station before I could comment on the woman (and how bleeding hearts or another type of vining flower might go well - but, then again, what do I know?).

After this, I met with Renoir who once again did a superb job. I'm so much closer to being complete.

But one thing worries me.

If Renoir opens his shop in West Bend like he's always intended to (I heard that might be in October) and passes down this tattoo parlor to Dropkick Murphy and Körperpiercing... I know that they're capable of doing fine work because if they weren't I'm sure they wouldn't be working where they are, but still.

The last thing I want is to kick Körperpiercing in her pretty face if she's the one to work on my feet.

What about Dropkick Murphy, then? Do I want him tossing obscenities at my chest while he slaves over a chest piece I have yet to envision? Or gnashing his teeth as he figures out a way to stretch a line of text from ribcage to ankle without it getting wonky over time?

I needn't freak out. I am just slightly resistant to change, that's all.

035.) Both the Bane and Lifeblood of My Existence

Sometimes I keep typing, even if what comes to the page is from no known language on earth, hoping that the sweet sound of clacking glass-covered keys and 1940s-era chiming bell will spark something deep within me - something of a magnitude hitherto unseen in literature.

Other times I simply bang my head against the mocking "Royal" decal.

034.) Keepsakes In Other People's Suitcases

At my job I often rescue quite a lot of things from certain death. Solid steel typewriters from a bygone era (one of which I have sitting beside my bed and use to write my novel before transferring those rough copies to the computer, a typewriter I shall post pictures of at a later date), books, handbags, bed linen (with a slight tear or two easily remedied by a needle and thread), freaky yet awesome miscellaneous items and too many other things to name.

One of these many other items I rescued is this:



A farmer's suitcase from a long, long time ago (that's a genuine Bakelite handle there, folks!) which I've dressed up with equally mature postcards, the majority being from my own ancestry. Sadly, the suitcase did not come with a key so I do have the occasional nightmare of finding the latch closed and the precious contents inside forever lost because I would be loath to destroy this handsome piece of engineering (and the family photographs, postcards on it).

The precious cargo inside the suitcase?

Among other things, I have:



An "I Rock With Obama" t-shirt which should not at all be in a wooden suitcase. (I cast my first ever Presidential vote and nearly died from the pride of it all - and Obama still lost this county in which I live). But, the other day I came across a brand new, still in the package "t-shirt frame". Very soon will this cotton slice of American history be showcased in a proper place. Where, I haven't decided; I haven't the wall space.









Three ornaments from one of my late Grandmother Alys's themed Christmas trees. This is the same grandmother who collected lawn gnomes (by that one guy who stuck a penny on the gnome's underside) and who collected so many that they were everywhere. Outside on the lawn, on benches, in the garden, the dooryard, the concrete patio, the driveway. Inside on the fireplace mantle, on side tables, in bedrooms.

I have had a horrific fear of lawn gnomes since my infancy.









An empty toilet paper roll from the slumber/"Bon Voyage, Lora!" party which took place my freshman year of high school. Topics of this party included but were not limited to The Burning Bed (purchase here or here), "Teaching Mrs. Tingle", houses which needed to be and were toilet papered, and a single question asked by Ms. Burning Bed regarding a certain school wrestler who reciprocated my feelings of adoration in kind (though I realized this far too late in that bitter gift of hindsight; at the time, all I did was blush and revel in my clinical depression, resulting in this crush of mine turning ornery and hateful).

Also, a plastic bouncy ball from the local Chinese restaurant where I went with Apt Teacher (9th paragraph down if you'd be so kind) and a boy who I thought I loved (because he somehow reminded me of that wrestler in the 9th grade).









A soda bottle from the first and only car pool to MATC for the Graduation For Dummies Class scheduled Career Profiling. We drove in a mini van, ate pizza, and drank these Black Bear sodas bought at Pick 'N Save from the kid who reminded me of that 9th grade wrestler. Said kid fell out of the van. I still have the pictures taken of that fall...

And you may notice the writing in blue ink behind that soda bottle. It reads

BILL KLEIN
RFD #1
NEWTON, IOWA
PHONE 2533W

So, Mr. Klein or any surviving heir(s), I have your suitcase. It is serving me very well and I promise to take good care of what was once yours. Thank you, Sir.

A signed -

Yes



SIGNED head shot of Ellen Burnstyn. The Ellen Burnstyn. I sputter just looking at that picture, which some idiot decided to get rid of at a tag sale (the plastic document sleeve the head shot is stored in bears the disgusting price of "$3.00") and unbelievably poor signed Ellen Burnstyn didn't sell at the tag sale and went to the thrift store from which I snagged her.

She is even stored, in her plastic document sleeve, along side of





President Lyndon "Let's-Go-Kill-Your-Husbands-and-Fathers-and-Children-in-Vietnam" Johnson. Notice the location of Harrisburg, Pennsylvania. My mother went to college for 40 years at Pennsylvania State University, some 91.6 miles away from Harrisburg at University Park. I wonder if she went to that gathering? I wonder if this gathering was anywhere around the time her college sweetheart and first husband was murdered in that war no one belonged in?



So that's it then. A peek at some of the numerous items I have crammed into Bill Klein's suitcase.

033.) Proof of Humanity's Decent into Idiocy! (A True Story Updated)

It's a bit overdue, but I thought that I'd wait around before posting this to see if the light bulb above S'ven's head would ever go off.

As of yet, that light bulb is dimmer than an over worn pair of undies.

And in case you haven't the slightest clue as to what I am talking about, please jog on over here.




S'ven was thrust into the UFC spotlight a little sooner than he'd expected, for one guy ran for the hills before that guy's match ever began and S'ven was called up to the ring two weeks early. Naturally, he thought this was a wonderful thing because the man must obviously think himself the UFC's answer to


CM Punk (and really I just desperately wanted an excuse to post a picture of that man and his fine, fine lines. photo source. Fine, fine, fine...).

So, inflated ego in hand, S'ven entered the ring touting all of the moves he'd learned in any number of basements (these moves not being anything extraordinary). He did not tout very long, however, as the kid he was fighting quit not long into the match.

S'ven won by default.

He's going back this Saturday to fight and surely he'll be thinking that he's unstoppable - right until his head is handed to him.

032.) Meth Chemist Bunny Killers and a Haunted Duplex With Awesome Flowers

The neighbors to the right of me are meth chemists. Or producers of pornography. Or the soulless killers of fluffy bunny rabbits. But whatever they happen to truly be, they cannot for the survival of their very souls (or the abyss of those aforementioned missing souls) rent the upper apartment of their duplex.

I moved in across the fence from them, oh, four years ago. At that time they had one tenant and that tenant was a rather beefy single mother of a few tiny tots. She and her kids moved out maybe a year after my arrival to the neighborhood (an arrival lacking completely any "Welcome to the neighborhood, mind the bodily fluid secreting drunks" Post-it noted tin of brownies from any damned one of the people on the block - or even just the Post-It shoved into the crack of a riser on the porch steps). This heavy blonde woman with kids had bought a home of her own and got the heck out of Dodge.

These bunny killers have not been able to keep anyone in that vacant apartment for more than six months.

(but they do have these awesome kooky flowers on one side of their house, as pictured below)




In the three years since Blonde With Kids left, there have been only two occupants and one of those doesn't count on account of because - while he and his girlfriend did purchase a sofa from me at the thrift store and while they did move it into the apartment - they moved it right back out again less than a week later.

I have a short list of theories as to the whys of this utter inability to rent out that apartment. They are, in no particular order:

• The rent is astronomically high, even for this city's standards.

I know that my co-workers' neighbor just three houses down the street is asking for $900 a month. There are some places around the city demanding no less than a grand, and while I pay only $550 I highly doubt that the Bunny Killers are anywhere near that number.

• The Bunny Killers are impossible.
  

They live on site, in the lower apartment with their three teenage children, two dogs and whatever else might be stashed inside the place. They throw parties, waste hundreds of dollars filling a pool only they are permitted to use (which they hardly ever do) and for Wisconsinites they aren't very friendly at all. I mean, I live so close to them that I can count the sun damaged creases on their faces and yet they never so much as twitch a facial muscle in recognition of my presence. Granted, they could be lovely people - as lovely as bunny killers can be.

• The upper apartment is haunted by the gruesome ghosts of a grisly murder-suicide.

If that's the case, why the heck am I not living there?

I mention all of this because the adorable piercer/tattoo artist of the parlor I frequent - the one with the sugar skulls on her forearms and the glinting facial piercings? - she came by to look at that habitually vacant apartment with her boyfriend. I casually looked out of the living room window and there she was, holding onto the rent forms with one hand and saying good-bye to father Bunny Killer with the other.

I wanted to scream like a maniac out of the window at her and her beloved, but there was still a reasonable doubt that it was indeed her.

But, if it was her, even from far away and with that weird looking-down-and-over-from-the-second-story angle - she is so adorable.

031.) Sweet Home Chicago, Part IV

(part III)

Utterly despondent over my leaving the Art Museum, I went without much feeling to Millennium Park.



The faces on The Crown Fountain weren't working properly, yet they did occasionally "spit" all over the little children hanging out beneath them. The girl sitting beside me on the concrete bench had been talking at her cell phone since before I'd arrived and since I'd sat down she'd said good-bye three times. The water puddle on the bench next to me was creeping ever closer, facilitating my decision to get up and take a walk.

I first went to the Cloud Gate, managing to feel only slightly nauseated as I sauntered around and under the giant metal bean.

Heading east, I soon arrived at Jay Pritzker Pavilion. Because words can never express the sheer wonder and interest of the concert venue, I will not attempt description.

The Lurie Garden, however, I can and will paint with words. A cozy, beautiful place possibly created by Muse herself, the garden somehow deflects the noise of the city. A trickling stream winds its way through the garden, refracting the sunlight overhead like a thousand diamonds strewn against pale silk. My feet clomped beautifully against the wooden footbridge.

Were it possible, I would have divided myself in half and spent my time equally between there and the art museum. But I could not. Disappointed, I trudged back to The Crown Fountain. No, I did not cross the BP Bridge. Perhaps I should have, but with my luck I would have found myself hopelessly lost.

So, after gathering our things, we proceeded down The Magnificent Mile.

The Magnificent Mile is magnificent. Hundreds of restaurants and stores, the latter of which boast a wide array of goods at ridiculously high prices made even more ridiculous by the sales tax.

I'm not usually one for shopping, either, but I did stop into H&M. It was overcrowded (mostly by teenage to twenty-something women on the ground floor, mothers with children up the funky steel staircase at H&M Kids), but by this time I wasn't very surprised. The queue at the dressing rooms, however, did shock me. And the pleasant heart-attack waiting for me at check-out? Please!

One t-shirt, one black corset dress and one corset-like tank top. Three items set before the rude gay man (or, rather, the rude man who just so happened to be overtly homosexual) running the register to the immediate left of the middle register being bombarded with piles and piles of clothes (trash bag after trash bag after trash bag) handed over by an apparently very, very wealthy blonde girl.

I say wealthy because my three items, which had totaled a mere $60 or $70 in my rounded up calculations, came to a demented and completely deranged final amount of over $100.

The rude cashier sighed and rolled his eyes melodramatically when I asked to put back the tank top. He did not wish me good-bye.

With this episode playing in my head, I only went to one other store because Apt Teacher's son insisted that we stop by the Disney Store. I bought an Eeyore mug from the clearance wall. It's so cute, that mud. It says "Smile".

In doing all of this without much hassle, we were due to get lost next.

Apt Teacher wanted me to see Navy Pier. For whatever reason, we hadn't stopped by after the Shedd Aquarium when we were on that side of the city. Naturally, we walked up hill and down dale without finding a way to cross traffic. Hope was all but dead when we stumbled upon a group of nurses just off shift.

To get to Navy Pier we had to go underground. Literally, underground. Through a dark, dank tunnel.

From what I witnessed there, it wasn't worth the effort; Navy Pier is nothing like Coney Island. After a few pictures with the bronze statue of Bob Newhart (which is sodding awesome and made up for the less than spectacular experience just beyond the gates of the pier) and some dinner, a ride on the Ferris wheel and a quick look around, we traveled back to the heart of the city.

I stepped inside a record store whose name I've forgotten (though I'm sure it had something to do with a pineapple. Maybe a banana). I do know that it smelt warm, as most small record stores tend to do, and it had a balcony. Alas, I could not go to the balcony because I was soon pulled back outside by a frantic Apt Teacher. She was waving the Metra schedule in her hand.

Our train home left in eleven minutes.

We were 25 blocks from the station.

Running ["as if the very whips of their masters were behind them"], we arrived at the train station with only a minute to spare before our train left.

And then Apt Teacher could not find her ticket.

But we did get on the train and some time later (I don't know how long. I know I didn't fall asleep and yet that ride back is nothing more than a black hole in the universe of my memory), quite a bit later we were tossed out in Kenosha.

Then, of course, we got lost on the way home.

Driving through the yawning maw of the night, empty roads all around us, trapped somewhere between Kenosha and Milwaukee, I thought I'd never see my bed again.

I did. Eventually. Some 18 hours after the Chicago Trip of 2006 began.




All in all, Chicago is nice. It's very clean and [some] of the people there are lovely. The culture is absolutely amazing and there are enough things to do in a one block radius alone to last one person a lifetime.

If I were deaf, I would love Chicago.

I, however, am not deaf.

030.) Sweet Home Chicago, Part III

(part II)


My near death experience hadn't done much to heighten any sense within me; I was escorted across the street by the nice folks on scooters with only one thought ping!ing around inside my skull. That thought was not "Jeepers creepers, I've just cheated death" - oh, no - but "I'm a wee bit peckish".

Off to food it was, then. My companions and I continued on to Michigan Avenue, passing by an area slowly evolving into some type of festival. My hunger the ornery Viking that it was, I did not stop to ask what the street was being prepared for. I walked on, passed the south wall of The Art Institute of Chicago, and came on on The Magnificent Mile.

The first thing I noticed about the Mile was how loud it was. Sirens sounding ceaselessly; people talking on their cell phones or to each other, or both; cars sitting idle on the congested streets, horns blaring.

The second thing I noticed about the Mile was how many restaurants lined the place. These numerous restaurants stood like books on a library shelf.

Apt Teacher, her son and I went to the only familiar place: Subway. We had to cross the avenue to get there, merging with the migrating herd (and I do mean that with the purest sincerity) of people converging on the crosswalk.

I looked to the cars waiting impatiently in their stagnant queues. Why didn't they walk, or take the few hundred buses dotting the sea of pavement far as the eye could see? They'd get to their destinations more quickly. Yet they sat in their cars, bemoaning the city and its people. They were still sitting in their cars, bemoaning the city and its people, when I entered the long, impossibly narrow Subway and ate my lunch.

Those cars were still idling in the street as I migrated back across and went into the Art Museum.




I won't sit here and explain how much I in love with that place I am because that would take days to do. I will say that my mind boggled at the amount of artwork within, that the photography exhibit I visited was exquisite and that I still own the "Ghastlycrumb Tinies" shirt I bought at the gift shop.

I wanted to chain myself to one of the benches and never leave.

029.) Get Down With the Sickness

This:




is not what a severe head cold feels like. No happy, dancing bears for me.

I'm living in mortal terror of a nosebleed.

028.) Sweet Home Chicago, Part II

(Part I)



When we finally arrived in Chicago, I could not wait to get off of that Metra train. As I pocketed my ticket (which perhaps I should not have done) I watched Itchy, the checker-shirted red-head who'd sat way too close to me for comfort, leave his seat - giving me a spectacular view of London Calling.

The middle-aged punk rocker, wearing a black t-shirt so small the design printed on the fabric was hopelessly and grotesquely disfigured, stuffed his book into his bag. This simple, mundane act is only worth mentioning because of what he had to remove from the bag in order to return the book.

London Calling had been traveling on the Metra line since Kenosha with a little pink bunny rabbit in blue pinstripe pajamas. If that poor bunny hadn't looked so bedraggled, if London Calling hadn't been an overweight balding man too much in love with the eighties for his own good - I might have laughed at the absurdity of the situation. Unfortunately, the oddity playing out before me was of such magnitude that all of the neurons in my brain began to fire at once, leaving me a twitching mess.

When eventually I did get over the episode, Apt Teacher, her son and I ventured out into the train station.

There was a moment there, as we wandered about aimlessly in a sea of jabbing elbows, clicking heels and generally rude souls, when I had been absolutely convinced beyond any reasonable doubt that I had entered Hell.

(source)

Or at least Purgatory; we were lost (and not for the first time on this long trip).

By some stroke of luck we were able to find our way to the surface of the train station and into the jarring noise of the street. Never have I been surrounded by such noise. Never before or since have I been attacked - brutally raped and pillaged - by such NOISE.

The taxi we scurried into gave us no relief because, while the noise was quelled if only minutely, the stench of the vehicle was enough to subdue even the Headless Horseman.

That cab smelt of all kinds of death - none of them good.

Saying that the inside of that taxi was rank with the horrid stink of urine does nothing to convey the sickening strength of the odor. Saying that under the horrific smell of urine was something softer but no less terrifying - fecal matter, decomposing flesh? - cannot possibly explain to you the nightmare of that taxi ride across town to the lake. To this very day, over three years later, I still find that stink haunting me.

I fell out of the taxi, gasping-grasping-hacking for the sweetness of lake air.

Apt Teacher debated the fare, accusing the taxi driver (rightly) of driving to the Shedd Aquarium the long way in order to bleed us of our money. She relented for fear of the driver taking off with her belongings still in the trunk. He did begin to drive away without giving back her change.

Finally rid of that man, we walked to the side entrance of the aquarium because it's a bit difficult to wheel a child-filled stroller up an impressive set of stairs.

After waiting in line with all of the other people who either could not or would not ascend concrete steps, I got my admittance

( I apologize profusely for the eye-straining blur to these photos)

and headed inside.

It's a wonderful place, the aquarium, with a lovely Pacific White-sided Dolphin show that I was unable to watch because of the three idiots in front of me. Orange Cornrows (a female, mind), Pink Bra Straps and her most charming loverboy Mid America Bank. Splendid people, them, flailing about and talking loudly throughout the entire show.

I did, however, walk down and over to the Beluga whales. Funny-looking creatures, but how they ooze affection. Had I a camera at the time, I would have taken many pictures.




After the aquarium, having bypassed the Field Museum due to lack of time (I was most unhappy about this), we took a stroll along the lake. I nearly froze to death, while inland the temperature hovered close to 150 degrees.

I was also nearly run over as I crossed the street en route to Michigan Avenue. If it hadn't been for the trio of city workers on scooters, screaming into walkie-talkies about the dysfunctional traffic lights, I would have been ended far too early.

027.) Sweet Home Chicago, Part I

I really should be working on my novel, but instead I am sitting here listening to an old Sister Hazel song (and no, I don't know either - I think it's the infectious beat), bobbing my head enough to rattle the notion in my skull of writing about the trip to Chicago I went on once upon a time.





By "once upon a time" I mean a good three years ago.

I figure I should get it down in one place (rather than the twenty piles the bits and pieces are scattered now) before I completely forget about it. Not that that would be a horrible thing...




(The following has been complied from the nigh unintelligible scribbles in a notebook, a letter to a kid I once thought handsome and whatever flecks of memory I could scrape from the mementos I was able to shove into an overstuffed handbag.)




"I've been awake since 4.27 in the morning, not so much excited for this not-so-much a senior trip but, I suppose, dreading it. This outing to Chicago was all my idea, and what I wouldn't give to simply shove my foot in my mouth and go crawl under a rock."

So began my deplorably written letter to Anarchy (in the USA) on the morning of 6 June, 2006. I sat on the concrete steps in front of my house, half of my brain still asleep and the other half wondering what in the world I was doing up so early in the morning. Yes, the Chicago trip had been my idea - but I was the only student actually coming along with the teacher and her son. Why hadn't the outing been given up as a bad job? Why weren't we instead heading over to a wild night of fun and greasy pizza at Chuck. E. Cheese?

Sitting there, fretting not only about me (an East Coast native who's spent more than half of her life in small-town Wisconsin) going to a big city, but also about the ants wending their way ever closer to my backside. I don't like ants. Fact is, I might be slightly terrified of ants and the thought of even one of these tiny bug crawling on me -

I turned back to my letter, "... in efforts of forgetting the fact that the only big cities I've been to I can't remember, I was too young". This worked quite well - until my teacher pulled her car up to the curb.




(It might behoove me to stop here and clarify. For reasons I shall not get into (for it's a very long story but essentially: I left public high school after my freshman year because if I didn't I would have done some very drastic things, then tried a homeschooling program which was fulfilling college level stuff but also horrendously expensive, so - ) I spent a year in what I lovingly call The Graduation for Dummies Class. Through this course I received my high school diploma. I also was gifted with a wonderful teacher who completely made up for all the inept and indifferent schoolteachers I'd ever had. Said teacher was like the cool older sister who actually wanted to do things with you.)




Packing my letter into the handbag I had converted to a seam-splitting harbinger of all the useless things I would soon find out I didn't need, I got into the car and settled in for the long ride to the Metra station. In Kenosha. An hour and a half away. In a car with a rattling object in the dashboard and a silent radio. The latter was easily dealt with, for my teacher was the complete antithesis to me - she liked to talk. So, as I sat shotgun and listened to her speak over the soft snoring of her sleeping little boy, I looked out of the window at the rising morning along the highway.

There is nothing to look at on the highway, at least not on the one we were traveling down. Just cars and concrete and maybe the backs of vanilla buildings; it was a very long car ride. I counted one Wendy's restaurant - three counties south of where we started and five short blocks from the Metra station.

The station was sterile in the absolute purest sense of the word; there was not even a peanut packet to be found for sustenance. We should have stopped at the Wendy's we'd passed, but then again I wasn't hungry. I was tired, having woken up at 3.00AM and having woken up at 3.00AM my stomach was doing that thing it does when I'm forced to wake up anytime before 6.00 - it cramped.

With a cramping stomach and a mind screaming out ravenously for sleep, Apt Teacher, her son and I walked to the train platform. This platform was not, as you might be imagining, like something out of the Harry Potter series. There were no brick walls or magical creatures, nor even handsome trains. No, this train platform was on the roof of the sterile station we had come through. I wondered briefly how much time would have to pass before the roof gave way in a wondrously grisly display of steel, wood, and asphalt.

I wondered why there were no guardrails around the roof-top platform.

I wondered which one of the small children in the growing crowd would be the first to play "Touch the Face of the Speeding Train".

Once on the speeding train (settling into the second level), "I almost feel like Jonathan in Bram Stoker's Dracula, on his way to certain madness and severancy to the undead". I was sitting right above a man who insisted on picking at his teeth in a very nasty way, and to the left of another who had stared quite intensely at me while getting into this particular train compartment (a man who looked a little too old to be staring at Russian moon-faced (then) 19-year-olds). The same man who out on the platform had been keen on breaking the things packed so tightly in his bag.

That man had a complex, I think. He was all jazzed out in London Punk: Doc Martens (and has anyone else ever found that a tad bit ironic/amusing/[insert adjective here]?), cargo shorts, black beret and a t-shirt three sizes too small. London Calling, as I named him, was studying a book I've been reading for the past two years.

"I'd try to look at that tiny shirt of his, see what band is so important his beer gut needs to be unmasked, but that might draw too much attention".

If it hadn't been for fear of London Calling thinking I was attempting to hit on him, I would have chanced leaning over those two seats between us. I would have dealt with the almost absolute fact that when the train stopped I'd fall to the floor and break something; I was far too tall for the tight quarters of the second story. With my feet hanging down through the railing, I'd nearly clonked the conductor in the head when he came by to check tickets.





I made a remark in my letter to Anarchy (in the USA) about our third stop (Lake Forest, Highland Park - all during which Half-Suit, a man nestled across from us and wearing half a suit conversed with Apt Teacher about things which I did not pay attention to, though at one point I did care enough to learn that Half-Suit was actually Cooky).

Our third stop was Glencoe, Illinois.

"Glencoe. What the hell kind of name is Glencoe? Sounds like some sort of

(Cooky is married and a big cell phone talker. He commutes to Chi-town from Kenosha, works at Palms)

steroid company or something. It even has a stone marker.

(Cooky grew up in West Bend. London Calling looked at me again when I noticed "Glencoe, Ill., home of the best 'roids this side of Barry Bonds's ass!")

Now leaving

(picture: ripped and overly tanned dude, head the size of the Universal Studios globe. Big Smile)

"Glencoe!"

(tink tink of light against bleached and veneered teeth)

for Winnetka. Sweet ol' Winnetka."

I looked over what I had just written. Drunk on lack of sleep, I thought it was the wittiest thing I'd ever read in my life. How wrong I was.




(I inserted that dismal display because the shame might remind me to never think too highly of anything I do again)




Shortly after this, a man in a checkered shirt sat down in the seat immediately to my right. He scratched his head quite frequently. I pondered whether or not I should be worried.

Apt Teacher's son then had to pee. Badly.

And some guy began talking rather loudly about expanding bowels and other things one should never speak of outside of the doctor's office or morgue.

026.) Why Is There Not Mandatory Testing Before Parenthood?

I dislike with great intensity little children who run screaming like banshees throughout the building, dumping (and I do mean dumping, you'd think it had been snowing - ) popcorn and Cheetos all over the floor.

I dislike with greater intensity the inattentive mothers who allow their little children to run screaming like banshees throughout the building and dump popcorn and Cheetos all over the floor - or not pay any mind when their idiot boys bounce rubber balls near highly fragile glass objects (and I do mean "idiot boys", for one of them is at least twelve years old and is so repressed by his equally ignorant uber-religious born again mother that while he can blather on about Jesus -

("walkin' on the water. Sweet Jesus walkin' in the sky")

- he doesn't even know that ".25" means twenty-five cents).

These are the kids who will inherit the world.

Of course, I'll be dead by the time that happens. What, me worry?

025.) Who Ever Said Vampires Weren't Real?

So, my state offers something called BadgerCare Plus to all individuals below the poverty line. I would be one of those individuals, and being one of those individuals I spent some time quite a while ago typing and clicking my way through the application process. I was told that I met all of the requirements for this comprehensive, low- to no-cost health care plan. Naturally, being "poor" and without good health insurance, I was excited to be included in something such as BaderCare.

Then came the "however".

There is always a "however", a rat-like and stinking "however" that likes to rain on my glittery parade.

This "however" came in the simple question resembling something along the lines of, "Do you receive/are you offered health insurance through work?"

I had to click "Yes".

Next festering, pustule question which looked something like, "Have you enrolled?"

Here I told a little white lie. I said "No" when I had enrolled - though, technically, I had no idea if I was yet covered because no deductions for this health insurance had ever been taken out of my paycheck and I hadn't even received my booklet and health insurance card at the time. I also planned on dropping the coverage, assuming I had it, because -

"D.) The coverage was weak, lousy, not worth the time and money put into it and nothing like I wanted or needed" (I expand a wee bit on the true option D).

So, of course, when I get to the end of the application I find that because my workplace offers "health insurance" (a joke, really) I am not eligible for this nice BadgerCare Plus - a plan that would have covered my $600 mole-removal bill (for a mole that was less than one centimeter) and/or my $800 "complete bony" lower wisdom teeth extraction (though the lovely people at Drs. Hawkins, Gingrass and Miller are being very kind and holding the bill for me ($200 after my through-work dental insurance (which is good, by the way) covered what they saw fit).

All of this would have been fine if I hadn't come to work yesterday and learned that the insurance bill had finally shown up in the mailbox.

There are four of us on the plan, at least to my knowledge. Four people who owe $154 a piece (for our resident married couple that's $308) - or $77 a month for our "covered" months, or $19.25 a week. Now, $19.25 is more than twice what we were quoted when the dastardly scheming barker sat us down in a private room and explained all of the "wonderful" benefits to the plan.

Keep in mind that I am below the poverty level of my state. Keep in mind that the $154 dues the insurance company wanted taken out of this week's paycheck (as in Friday 31 July, 2009) is more than half of my paycheck.

Keep in mind that $19.25 is not the "around $9" we were told by this dastardly scheming barker working for a health insurance company quite obviously run by vampires. $19.25 a week is much more than I expected to pay for a health plan that covers nothing. It does not cover the emergency room, so if your arm was mauled off by a rather perturbed squirrel and you had to bleed all over the ER - you would not see a dime to help you with that cost. Sure, you'd get $100 a day for your hospital stay and $55 for the subsequent visits to the doctor's office and a piddly amount toward preventative care. You'd also see your generic prescriptions covered, but - oh, that's right - one of my co-workers found that this wasn't true at all.

We all banded together when Desert Storm (who will now be going to the VA from now on) recounted his harrowing story of going to the doctor's for a serious case of vertigo, getting a generic prescription from his doctor, running over to the pharmacy and being told by the pharmacist that his insurance card, in this case, was not worth the plastic it was made of.

We all banded together as one and dropped our health insurance plan.

I feel sort of bad for our chain of bosses. After all, our GM went through all that trouble of trying to convince the board to give we employees some sort of health insurance and when we finally do get a plan (in June) - it's worthless.

I bet those people at the insurance company would sit in their cubicles and titter at us.

Well, I say to you, who's tittering now?




If there's a bright side to all of this, it's that - referring back to my earlier spiel about BadgerCare Plus - while I can't get BadgerCare Plus I am eligible for the Family Planning Waiver Plan. Also, maybe now that we've all dropped out of the work offered health insurance plan, work will forgo that plan and go after a better plan. That or I could get into the state offered health insurance.




I leave you with a picture that makes me happy when I am, in this case, vexed.

(Michael Palin, one of the great and mighty Pythons, in an autographed photo sent to me after I wrote him a letter. It's sort of blurred and the quality isn't that great, but you get the idea)

024.) I Suppose I Deserve This.

(bench in front garden which greatly signifies how I am feeling this day)

Yesterday was Saturday (an obvious statement - unless you, dear reader, have just taken a rather nauseating trip through the space-time continuum and therefor have no idea what day it is, or even what year (in which case: the year is 2009)). As has been happening lately, I was on Register #1 duty yesterday.

I received my usual amount of gawkers and yellers and people otherwise ordering me to stop moving so that they might be better able to read my arm - or screwing up their faces and asking, "What's going on with your arm, there?" Most of the customers were nice, however, and made up for the rudeness of the others. Because, really, I am not an art exhibit escaped from the Louvre.

Then there was Jail Bait (fourth paragraph down, please). I don't know why I let myself be so creeped out by what happened, but he came in with one of his friends - though at the time I had no idea who it was coming through the door because I was writing down some items in our long running tally for inventory purposes.

ME

(WRITING DOWN THE ITEMS AND THEIR PRICES INTO THE YELLOW LEGAL PAD, TRYING TO DELAY THE INEVITABLE TASK OF CLEARING OUT THE SECOND REGISTER SO IT CAN BE MOVED ONTO THE COUNTER BESIDE REGESTER #1)

HELLO.





JAIL BAIT'S BRUNETTE FRIEND

(WALKING INTO THE STORE IN FRONT OF JAIL BAIT, SAUNTERING IN THAT WAY TEENAGE BOYS SAUNTER)

HEY.





JAIL BAIT

(GRABBING MY ATTENTION BY SPEAKING BECAUSE, OF COURSE, I KNOW HIS VOICE BY NOW AND ALWAYS LIKE TO SEE WHO HE'S COME IN WITH. HIS "POPS" IS A NICE MAN, AND I FIND IT MUCH EASIER TO MAKE SMALL TALK WITH POPS THAN JAIL BAIT BECAUSE - WELL - HOW DO YOU TALK TO A KID WITH A CRUSH ON YOU?)

HEY. NICE TAT.





ME

(ASSUMING HE IS REFERRING TO MY RIGHT SLEEVE, NOW THE MOST VISIBLE PIECE OF ART ON MY BODY AND ONE THAT WILL SURELY DRAW THE OTHERS FURTHER OUT OF THE NETHER AND INTO THE WAKING CONSCIOUSNESS - THANK YOU, MY DEAR SWEET RENOIR (I DON'T MEAN THAT ROMANTICALLY, MIND, MISSUS RENOIR SO PLEASE DON'T STAB ME WITH YOUR SHEARS). HOW WOULD YOU LIKE MY SOUL PACKAGED?)

THANK YOU.

(GOES ABOUT BUSINESS OF TRYING TO DUST THE SHELVES OF THE STORE IN A PENCIL SKIRT WITH AN EYELET AND RIBBON BACKING AND A SLIT PERHAPS TOO HIGH FOR THE CATHOLIC RESALE ENVIRONMENT)





JAIL BAIT

(COMES TO REGISTER SOME TIME AFTER ARRIVING IN STORE WITH A PAIR OF SUNGLASSES (BROWN AS RECOMMENDED BY BRUNETTE, TO GO WELL WITH JAIL BAIT'S BLONDE AND PALE COMPLEXION). SETS SUNGLASSES ON COUNTER)





ME

(AFTER RINGING THE $3.99 GLASSES INTO REGISTER)

$4.21





JAIL BAIT

(HANDS ME $20.25)

YOU GOT THIS JOB THROUGH WORKFORCE DEVELOPMENT, RIGHT?





ME

(AFTER A SLIGHT, UNCOMFORTABLE PAUSE DURING WHICH I THINK: "HOW ON EARTH DO YOU KNOW THIS?" AND "YEAH. IN 2006. A LONG TIME AGO NOW. IT WAS A REQUIREMENT FOR MY GRADUATION FOR DUMMIES CLASS THOUGH I WAS NOT ONE OF THE DUMMIES." EVENTUALLY, NODS)

YEAH.

(HANDS JAIL BAIT HIS CHANGE. I MIGHT HAVE PUT THE SUNGLASSES IN A BAG)





JAIL BAIT

(POCKETS CHANGE. SAYS SOMETHING ALONG THE LINES OF-)

I'M DOING THAT, TOO.






ME

(MAKING A HATCH MARK NEXT TO THE WORD "SUNGLASSES" ON THE LEGAL PAD TALLY)

GOOD LUCK WITH THAT.

(I MEAN THIS SINCERELY THOUGH IT MAY HAVE COME OUT SARDONICALLY. I CANNOT HELP THAT THE NATURAL CADENCE OF MY VOICE TENDS TO LEAN TOWARD SARDONICISM)






JAIL BAIT

( EXITS STAGE LEFT, LEAVING ME WITH A STRANGE FEELING AND AN IMAGE IN MY MIND OF MY PICTURE HANGING ON THE CUBICLE WALL OF MARY BETH, THE "WOW" DIRECTOR WITH A SPACE IN THE WORKFORCE DEVELOPMENT OFFICES INSIDE MATC)

Am I a "Success Story" to be told to all of the Summer Youth Employment Program youths ages 14 to 24?

023.) Going to a Hookie Lau...

(and it just so happens the killer was caught - in this picture! - taken before we even began)

There was a murder mystery party at the local library tonight. The theme was "Lethal Luau" and of course I came completely overdressed. Four-inch wedge heels (making me 6'4'') and a 1940s Hawaiian print two-piece outfit, the blouse tied under the bust so of course I froze solid in the air conditioning. But I was dressed quite appropriately for my role as Holly Day, the third wife of a reclusive billionaire.

I should have taken a picture of my outfit, but Kelly's battery was dying and I could only manage this one shot of the pineapple at my table. Turns out, I got a two-for-one! The killer, Joey "'Bo-'Jo" Breakers, is seated at far right munching on (what else?) pineapple.

There were two tables set up in the community room of the library, each with seven characters a piece. There were times when I could barely hear myself think (the other table being quite rowdy) and therefor missed some of my cues.

We feasted upon dried papaya slices, cookies, cheese and crackers and the typical tropical fruit platter. There was also a very delicious punch of cranberry, pomegranate and soda (I must get the recipe for this).

In spite of the fact that I watch far too many crime shows on television and therefor guessed (correctly) who the killer was before the first round was through - the party was great fun.

Next party is in October. I think I'll sit at the other table and play a man - or at least sit at the other table so that when I go back to the "old" table I can play a man. Yeah. Something like that.

022.) You're Never There, As Cake Once Sang

I am socially inept. I have accepted this as a condition of my breed (Writer) and have made peace with it long ago; however, there are times when all I want to do is sit down and flap my gums and simply... be. With another person who actually exists outside of my head.

So it would make perfect sense for me to listen to "Independently Happy" by Blue October (whose lyrics have graced this picture today).

021.) Go Ahead. Get a Speeding Ticket in the Name of a Lame Musical

I love it when people drive 25pmh over the speed limit, their stereo blasting to a level flirting dangerously with the sound barrier - all so that I may listen to the last few verses of "You're the One that I Want" (Ooo, ooo, ooo - Honey)

Join me, won't you, in my quest to bring subsistence to the masses, whereas "Grease" merely echoes eternally with the sound message of: "Dress like a whore woman of the night and you too can bag your man!"

020.) New Cameras.

I caved and bought a digital camera.





I have christened her Kelly. I know, it's crazy to name a camera - but people do name stranger things. Besides, I have a film camera I call Grace. It was only fitting.


Oh, and hello to my new followers! It's very nice to meet you. I'll comment on your lives as soon as my head stops spinning. I have to leave for work in ten minutes and I haven't even gotten my things together yet.

019.) I Can Finish What I Start, Really I Can. Part II.

(Part I - though Part I really doesn't have a thing to do with Part II)

Some people are connoisseurs of fashion. For others it's fine wine or profanity or potato chips in the shape of janitor's heads. As for me? I run after the simple project - which might be an odd thing to say given my half-finished writing workbook (I used to be ambidextrous as a child, am once again though I stopped using the workbook when I reached cursive), my pile of foreign language books I work through diligently for all of eight chapters before stopping (only to start again from the beginning because I've forgotten everything I've learned) - or the stacks of books I have leaning drunkenly all over my living- and bedroom (99% unread and yet I keep purchasing more, and the ones I do read? I start one, stop, start another and before I know it I'm juggling anywhere from three to five at a time). But a project has always instilled in me a kind of thrill, an almost perverse electric current of unbridled joy.

Most of these projects, enveloped by this quasi-lust reminiscent of mist around a haunted television island, hearken back to my school days - a fact whose irony is not lost to me (for I have always held a great disdain toward learning institutions for reasons both irrational and justifiable).

I suppose I delved into school projects with such passion because it was an escape. I wasn't the kid with the stable home life; however, I wasn't the kid who drank or did drugs or had sex. I wasn't a cutter. I didn't dabble in the dark arts or nurse an eating disorder. I didn't do anything, really. Yes, I had friends - but their motives were muddled at worst and possessed of raging sadism at best. I was far too depressed to do anything about that.

So schoolwork, much as I hated it (much as I could not for the very life of me understand it), allowed a reprieve from everything going on around me.

I cite the following, not only as evidence toward my burning insanity, but also as an example that one day I will complete those German text books - and the Living Russian record course, and the Marilyn Monroe photo collage, and the...

To the list (which is not complete, but a brief overview), which will not only highlight some of my finer accomplishments but remind me that I can do anything that I set my mind to.

• The Cow Book (not actually mine, but bear with me here)

The Cow Book was exactly as implied. A book entirely devoted to the cow, every picture drawn by my father (who could have rivaled Michelangelo and why he didn't pursue a career in art is beyond me). This book alone might explain my lust for lavish and meticulous projects. Sadly, the Cow Book vanished after my father's death in 1996.

• Sugar Cube Castle

Lying dormant for years, heretofore only seen in long, exuberant plays with winding plots soon forgotten, my desire was realized. It was the annual sugar cube castle competition. Going all out, my castle was complete with the tradition bulwark and turrets, yes, but also slitted windows for the archers, a working drawbridge, rolling green hills of that paper grass used in toy railroad set-ups and an orchard of fake plastic trees. All of the children's castles were then, for whatever reason, carried by the lot of us into the school's dark, dank, mold-smelling basement locker room - the very same locker room where we went for tornado drills; the very same, creepy locker room made even creepier when doing the duck-and-cover in the dark.

• Book Report I - R. L. Stine "The Dead Lifeguard" (I think. It is the only one that would make sense)

In order to complete this task I ransacked Big Lots. I came out with two flexi-pose female wrestling dolls and some sort of small Barbie Doll pool made of plastic. I filled the pool with blue-raspberry flavored Jell-o from the dented/nearly-to-already expired or otherwise outdated general store somewhere in Sheboygan County (where damn never everything in that store is $1). Once the Jell-o began to set, I stuck one of the identical twin dolls face down in the pool and the other I positioned at the edge of the pool, her pink bra and tiny cut-off jean shorts indicative to the beach environment in which the book takes place. What I actually wrote about the book I do not remember.

• Book Report II - Caroline B. Cooney "The Terrorist"

Another girl in my sixth grade class was also reading this book (the girl sitting directly across from me no less) and so we teamed up on the report. Really, the only thing I recollect is recreating the scene in which the main character's idiot brother accepts a brown paper package tied with twine, given to him by a stranger in the London Subway, and subsequently becomes the victim of a bomb. One of us read and the other, on the cue of "Boom!" (screamed by a plant in the audience), dropped dead to the floor.

• Book Report III - The Civil War (exact book forgotten because my mother got rid of it, but possible title could be "The Civil War: A History" by Harry Hansen)

I chose this book with the intention of creating a massive display of war injuries (the tome had an impressive catalog of not only every soldier who fought and died in the war, but also the destruction of war). My teacher wasn't very impressed, perhaps because she didn't buy my "Little Activist" routine (I was in fourth grade at the time). What I should have done was do a report on "Johnny Got His Gun" by Dalton Trumbo.

• Book Report IV: John Toland "Adolf Hitler" (the old two-volume, hardcover edition)

In a futile effort to understand a monster, I created a thorough report on this book (sans my typical comprehensive visual aid). I might have been in fifth grade at the time.

• Book Report V: J. K. Rowling "Harry Potter and the (whatever it was)"

A not-so-complete departure from my norm: reports on books dealing with death. The class was broken up into teams. Maxwell, Heather, Eric and I were in a group. I believe it was Eric who had the ingenious idea of filming our reports. We went to my house for the movie making.

Maxwell taped Heather and me asleep on the floor (the camera lingering on my ass for reasons I'm still not sure on, maybe it was just big compared to Heather's). Heather walked through the jungle. Eric was not there that day, I don't think, and if he was I can't remember what he did. As for me, I stepped into my role as Severus Snape (the Alan Rickman character the object of my long, deep dark desire - a character who in the book never fails to bring about images of Trent Reznor, and I will never forgive J. K. Rowling for killing Snape off). In charge of the camera, I used my magical powers (and seamless control of the power button) to turn a stuffed tiger into a crystal turtle paperweight.

• Unknown/half-forgotten video project:

All I remember is Brittney's farm (the same Brittney with whom I did the report on "The Terrorist"). It was autumn and I'd neglected to bring a jacket. I sat in the cab of a pick-up truck, my hands frozen even cradled to my chest, Niles sitting on the sleeve of my favorite blue sweater.

I remember standing in front of the camera at the farm, talking at the lens while the horse behind me suddenly decided he needed to pee.

• The Great Egg Drop

Because I could not procure a live chicken, I had to do the next best thing. Place the egg in a marshmallow-filled canning jar. Wrap canning jar in paper toweling and pack in well-padded box. Slice open thumb when retrieving the unbroken egg, the glass jar having absorbed all of the shock.

• The 8th Grade History/English Co-Production of the Salem Witch Trails

I played Tituba, slave to Reverend Samuel Parris's family and the one who was pointed at by the collective finger. I was laughed at, either because my skirt was too large or because I was a skinny white girl (in an all-white school) playing a black woman. But I had the last laugh. Not only was I in the play, playing a rather pivotal role (which was also disgusting; the racial and religious scorn of the Puritans) - but I also helped to build the sets.

• King Cluck - A Group Effort

Like King Tut only a store bought chicken. We loved that thing. We rubbed oils on his headless body and we wrapped him up mummy-style. We placed him in a shoebox sarcophagus. Because the science class was learning about decomposition, we buried King Cluck in the small forest beside the school (the idea being that we'd get back to him in a few years' time). And then some punk kid dug him up shortly after the burial ceremony.

• Disease!

The same year as King Cluck, same 7th grade science glass, we were each assigned to a report on a bacterium or virus. It was supposed to be random. My soon-to-be one-date boyfriend pulled "ear infection" from the chip bowl.

The gods smiled down upon me: I got "Ebola".

• Archeology Dig in Small-town Wisconsin

The teachers all pulled together and got a truckload of dirt shipped to the playground. That mound was almost as tall as the middle school building. I toiled away at the dirt pile for days under the searing, soul searching sun (thank you, Life of Agony, do you have any idea how much I love you?). I didn't find a damned thing.

And my moment of shining glory:

• The Presentation on Your Person of Choice

Chris McCandless would have bummed me the hell out, so I ran to the teacher the day, almost the very moment, she gave out the assignment. In one gasping breath I demanded more than asked her, "Edgar Allan Poe. Is Edgar Allan Poe taken? Give me Edgar Allan Poe!"

So I got E. A. Poe, my favorite author (don't let the blog name fool you).

I lived in the library during the length of that assignment. My visual aid was a grainy photo on craft board, interesting and thought provoking but not the coup de grâce.

My presentation was a complete, unabridged biography of my literary God. I used a pack and a half of college ruled index cards I picked up at the local hardware store (the kind that smelt of that sweet hardware store scent and came in the giant economy packages of 100). I shoved every single, solitary fact about Poe down my classmates throats. I'm sure I even had the number of pores on the man's face written down somewhere.

I gave a full reading of "The Tell-Tale heart".

The teacher was none too pleased. She said it was too long and relatively boring and that I should not have been so excited (to have overdone the presentation as I did).

Of course, there was the moment I graduated from high school as well. That sort of proved that I wasn't as stupid as I though I was, that I actually could accomplish something greater than a presentation on a dead writer.

There are also the signs I make at work which take me half an hour to complete (two days the last one I did, which was on a piece of ply board and painted white and red). And the catalog furniture around the house that I put together (in the end, I always eat the instructions out of blind rage). And, of course, the books I'm writing.

So, yes. If I have the passion I can do anything I want. I can finish what I start.

I can talk to a sodding tattoo artist. I can hand him a paper bag and say, "Here. To protect your fine, fine lines from those dastardly swooning bodies you must surely trip over on a regular basis".

I can get published (Edit 09 November 2009: I will be getting published. A short story at least, with which I won first place for at the America's Haunted Roadtrip Ghostwriting Contest).

I can dye an elephant pink with purple polka dots and name him Fred.

019.) I Can Finish What I Start, Really I Can. Part I.

My main goal, the only true goal I've ever had in my life, is to become a published author.

I've accomplished what other people might see as goals, achievements, mind.

I have a job. A job I like very much in spite of its frustrations, a job which does something for the small part of the world in which I take up space. A job that I possibly do not want to do for the rest of my life, but for now I am happy.

I have a somewhat advanced education without the aid of the pomp and circumstance of college (primary source: a mother who spent more years in college than I've been alive (22 years thus far at the time of this writing) and who was so overqualified for everything (even teaching positions) that the only job that would take her was one answering phones at a battered women's shelter - which would have had to let her go if she hadn't retired before hand). Suddenly I realize I'm more like my hero than ever I could have thought, or perhaps I am crazy and this is all in my head.

I have a canvas of skin I will paint with beauty.

Eventually, though I've never felt hardwired for it, I will find love.

That thought, the one of love, terrifies me even more than not being a writer (because not being a writer is not an option). It's not so much the notion of dying alone, but of letting someone in.

I drift. I enter someone's life and then I leave with the night. It's not something I do with any conscious intent, it's not something I do with the aim to inflict pain or anger - it's just something I do.

As a little girl, I never dreamt of a wedding - maybe because I knew, even then, that I would not be allowed to marry whatever gender took my heart. I never fantasized about a house with a white picket fence. I never wanted children or a car or dog or even a house plant.

I wanted to write. Always, I have wanted to write. But as my hero learned too late, happiness is only real when shared.

Yet I freeze. I'm either blind to the adoration of others, others I could indeed have pictured myself with, or am rendered dumb by my emotions. My heart soars and my soul aches and I want nothing more to speak. Speak, goddammit, but I cannot. I stand there with my mouth open, willing myself to expel this congealed mass of feeling in me, and instead I only stare with a pained longing at something I want so badly but am terrified of.

I am terrified because they will leave.

My father died of cancer. My "step-father" drank himself to death. My mother abandoned the former to carouse with the latter - abandoned me as well, left me to deal with the hard and empty promise of life.

I was taken away from what I recall so fondly as my true friends, the band of three I never seemed to have gotten enough of, and found myself with people whose motives I have given up trying to understand - people who instilled in me a constant suspicion of everyone. But then I made a move. I left those people, those "friends" I had, and I never looked back. I was alone. Finally, I was left alone.

Now, however, I jump between bouts of independent happiness and great unease.

I like being alone, I prefer it, and then I feel my stomach churn with dread.

What is success if I am alone? What is an absolute existence if I have no one's arms, in my state of accomplishment, to run into?

So I guess that settles it then.

Despite what fear it may cause or the awkwardness and embarrassment it might breed, I will make my confession to Dropkick Murphy even if it kills me. If it doesn't work? I've felt heartbreak before, profoundly - paralyzingly - and so it won't be the end of the world. I'll simply pick up the needle and thread and move along.

Holy Till's false phallus, Batman - I wasted an entire entry on that? Two when everything is all said and done?

(Part II - though Part II really doesn't have a thing to do with Part I)